Hi,
sorry for my very slow reply

Here's a good way to do it since you have the Pro version installed:

1 - set up your modules so that they show at least on all the pages that you want them to display on. They will also display on the pages you don't want them on, but we'll remove those in the next step.

2 - Create a new MetaMod and assign it to all pages. In the PHP box, write:

$vm = JomGenius("virtuemart");
if ($vm->check("pagetype = shop.cart, shop.product_details, checkout.index#1, checkout.index#2, checkout.index#3, checkout.index#4, checkout.thankyou")) {
  foreach (array(44,45,95,94,127) as $m) {
    $changes->mod($m)->disable();
  }
}


What this code does is to check if the page is on one of the VM page types you listed. If it is, it runs through each of the modules you listed and disables them.

Best regards,
Stephen